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To forgive or not to forgive;
that is the question.
this video is very meaningful.
through the toughest times in life, if we don't forgive the matter, we will never walk out of the sorrow, the pain.
I once heard a quote:
it doesn't matter if you can't forget it. because if you don't forgive, it means you will never get out of that pain. even if remembering it brings you a certain pain, you will also remember how you walked out of this mess, and how you got stronger and stand where you are today.
whenever you hold a grudge against someone, and even if you do inflict some form of harm to him, is it worth it? it might, perhaps, satisfy your personal hunger for revenge. but what happens to those people who need that particular person? whatever one person do, they have their own reasons. and these reasons might not be comprehensible to us. when you think you're harming only one person, you have to think again; everyone in this world is at least connected to someone. even if it's just one.
ironically, I do not believe we should really forgive everyone.
like when you hammer a nail in a piece of wood, even if you take out the nail, the hole on the wood will always be there. it stays there. the damage has been done.
to those who cause serious harm, I hope your conscience will haunt you forever. if you do not have one, then I hope you meet your own match. and both of you will die together in this death match. then it'll be a happy ending. for me at least.
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sorry for the seemingly vengeful tone
it's not that i've met something awful or anything
it's just that i was pondering
about what kind of people shouldn't be forgiven
ie. rapists
they commit a crime to satisfy their own sexual desire
don't ask me why i thought of it
it just came to my mind
bah
anywaytoday yesterday was Tuesday
which means HUNGRY day
but i've found a solution to it already;
my 1230-1530 class is like... OTOT stuffs
so yup, lunch is included in OTOT
hahahhaa
woke up late for class... again
too tired from last night's debugging
morning class was like revising Flash
which we learnt in year 1
well, revising is for those who haven't touched Flash
it's like an insult to me -__-
the revision exercises are like... pure time-wasting -.-
oh well
hope as it progresses
they teach something more useful to me -__-
12pm class ended
went to FC 4 for lunch
because Tuesdays are also Tang Yuan days
as well as Mushroom day!
had bread that i tapao from home
because i NEED to save some money
so money is spent only on tang yuan
1pm went back to class
and as expected
the 1230 class is like... nothing -__-
oh this is when my Korean lecturer
said that Jum means Dot in Korean
it's pronounced as "joom" in korean i think
i find that fact pretty cool
then slack abit
work abit
then fell asleep because i didn't felt like doing work
slept until 4pm drawing class
when lecturer marking attendance
i was still sleeping away
then my classmates had to call me to wake up
abit paiseh haha =X
drawing class was abit interesting;
we're asked to use our left hand (for right master hand people)
and right hand (for left master hand people)
to draw!
basically just scribble some lines
and get a shape
then lecturer will pick 1 out of 15 scribbles
and we're supposed to design it into a vehicle
rather interesting concept
but nevertheless, it's drawing -__-
so i don't really like it LOL
i love coloring though :)
tried abit of design
but gave up and slacked till 6pm
then jiu go home liao
kinda tired for the day
i slept from 8pm - 9pm
then 915 i went to sleep again till 10pm
even so
i still feel tired now -.-
i still have some scripts to do
but i'll leave it till tomorrow
lazy already
pretty long post
so i shall put a picture at the end!
Eibo-Jeddah @ deviantART
that's to thank you for reading my long post
if you did read it =/
that is the question.
this video is very meaningful.
through the toughest times in life, if we don't forgive the matter, we will never walk out of the sorrow, the pain.
I once heard a quote:
Forgive everything, even if you can't forget it.
it doesn't matter if you can't forget it. because if you don't forgive, it means you will never get out of that pain. even if remembering it brings you a certain pain, you will also remember how you walked out of this mess, and how you got stronger and stand where you are today.
whenever you hold a grudge against someone, and even if you do inflict some form of harm to him, is it worth it? it might, perhaps, satisfy your personal hunger for revenge. but what happens to those people who need that particular person? whatever one person do, they have their own reasons. and these reasons might not be comprehensible to us. when you think you're harming only one person, you have to think again; everyone in this world is at least connected to someone. even if it's just one.
ironically, I do not believe we should really forgive everyone.
like when you hammer a nail in a piece of wood, even if you take out the nail, the hole on the wood will always be there. it stays there. the damage has been done.
to those who cause serious harm, I hope your conscience will haunt you forever. if you do not have one, then I hope you meet your own match. and both of you will die together in this death match. then it'll be a happy ending. for me at least.
--------------------------------------
sorry for the seemingly vengeful tone
it's not that i've met something awful or anything
it's just that i was pondering
about what kind of people shouldn't be forgiven
ie. rapists
they commit a crime to satisfy their own sexual desire
don't ask me why i thought of it
it just came to my mind
bah
anyway
which means HUNGRY day
but i've found a solution to it already;
my 1230-1530 class is like... OTOT stuffs
so yup, lunch is included in OTOT
hahahhaa
woke up late for class... again
too tired from last night's debugging
morning class was like revising Flash
which we learnt in year 1
well, revising is for those who haven't touched Flash
it's like an insult to me -__-
the revision exercises are like... pure time-wasting -.-
oh well
hope as it progresses
they teach something more useful to me -__-
12pm class ended
went to FC 4 for lunch
because Tuesdays are also Tang Yuan days
as well as Mushroom day!
had bread that i tapao from home
because i NEED to save some money
so money is spent only on tang yuan
1pm went back to class
and as expected
the 1230 class is like... nothing -__-
oh this is when my Korean lecturer
said that Jum means Dot in Korean
it's pronounced as "joom" in korean i think
i find that fact pretty cool
then slack abit
work abit
then fell asleep because i didn't felt like doing work
slept until 4pm drawing class
when lecturer marking attendance
i was still sleeping away
then my classmates had to call me to wake up
abit paiseh haha =X
drawing class was abit interesting;
we're asked to use our left hand (for right master hand people)
and right hand (for left master hand people)
to draw!
basically just scribble some lines
and get a shape
then lecturer will pick 1 out of 15 scribbles
and we're supposed to design it into a vehicle
rather interesting concept
but nevertheless, it's drawing -__-
so i don't really like it LOL
i love coloring though :)
tried abit of design
but gave up and slacked till 6pm
then jiu go home liao
kinda tired for the day
i slept from 8pm - 9pm
then 915 i went to sleep again till 10pm
even so
i still feel tired now -.-
i still have some scripts to do
but i'll leave it till tomorrow
lazy already
pretty long post
so i shall put a picture at the end!
Eibo-Jeddah @ deviantART
that's to thank you for reading my long post
if you did read it =/
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